Elasticated trousers get such a bad rap; slobby, lazy, uninspiring in the style department. They’ve traditionally been considered a sign that you’ve given up. Next stop: velcro shoes.
I don’t need to tell you how appreciated a stretchy waistband is though – and not just during the postpartum weeks when everything is still swollen and sore. My youngest started nursery a few weeks ago and immediately got bronchiolitis. Neither of us have been getting much sleep, so pull-on pants have been all I can manage most mornings.
Here’s the good news then - this season stretchy trousers are chic. They’ve been rebranded (we’re calling them ‘soft pants’ now) and the professionally well-dressed are wearing them:
This is no doubt a hangover from the lockdown loungewear boom. Despite the catwalks pushing a sharper aesthetic (see the return of trouser suits) once the nation settles into stretchy waistbands, it’s a hard job convincing them to go back apparently. But we’re not just talking leggings and joggers here. The soft pant to know is the pyjama trouser.
By pyjama trouser I mean wide-leg, full-length or ankle-crop and in a mid-lightweight fabric like cotton or linen. I mentioned With Nothing Underneath’s hemp palazzo pants a few weeks ago (the colours! The boxer detailing!) And this black linen pair from Whistles (£99) which are no-effort and sleek.
Or you could do this season’s striped PJ pant. I’m hesitant to buy into looks that are all over Instagram (which this is) but because it’s such a classic style, we’re on safe ground. A preppy blue/white stripe is particularly timeless and has a summery feel. This pair from Adanola are great (£52.99) as are these brushed-cottons from Hush (£49). A fashion editor friend has recommended these from Arket (£42).
A good drape and generous fabric is going to make pyjama pants look a) more expensive and b) like they’re supposed to be worn outside. You want an element of slouch so try sizing up, especially if the fabric is lightweight as this will stop them going sheer when you bend over.
The relaxed silhouette of PJ trousers looks very now, plus they’re easy to wear with trainers and flat sandals. They also have the same breezy appeal as a midi dress but are obviously more practical for sitting on the floor, etc.
In terms of what to wear them with, just add everyday basics. To make your outfit look intentional (rather than like you’re wearing actual pyjamas) keep the colour palette tight and add a good accessory.
Here are three ways to wear PJ pants with what you already have in your wardrobe.
*PJ pants throughout are these!
With your black tank
Super simple, super sleek. If you're breastfeeding, this nursing vest looks good. I have an ancient Uniqlo cashmere jumper and it hasn't gone bobbly - go a size up to get luxe slouch. Fitflop shoes are like walking on cushions. I've done several park laps in mine.
With your big cardi
A chunky knit over PJs feels very Richard Curtis romantic lead. Add clogs and a basket bag and it all gets quite Gwyneth at a farmers market. How fabulous for the nursery run.
With your white T-shirt
Switch out your jeans for PJ pants et voilà - summer uniform sorted. Ramp up the preppy-factor with plimsolls.
One more thing…
I know no one has any time to read (or if you do, like me you spend it scrolling Vinted for kids clothes) BUT, I was sent a preview copy of Olivia Petter’s new book last week and it's such a goodie. Intriguing enough to keep you focused, but it doesn't feel like hard work. It's out 15th July, pre-order it now for future you. Who knows, maybe you'll be on a sun lounger with a glass of wine.
That’s all for now. You're doing great, Frankie x
My children are older (8 and 10) - so I should be more together - but I also should have read War and Peace - so here we are - but I love your Substack and recommendations. Enjoy your bank holiday (as much as one does with small
children).